Consulting + Coaching

As a consultant and coach specializing in the marriage and divorce process, I provide clients with clarity & guidance on either end of marriage - from educating them on what they need to know before getting married to advising those who are approaching, going through, or looking to recover from divorce.

Pre-Marriage:

I love to help people understand what they should know before getting married. Some of these common premarital topics include: 

  • what you should know about the marriage contract + your state’s default laws

  • marital property

    • what it is & when it comes into play,

    • why the state you reside in may matter,

    • determining how to handle ownership of real estate or other property,

    • etc.

  • prenuptial or postnuptial agreements (“prenups” / “postnups”)

    • what they are,

    • what protections they can provide,

    • situations in which it’s a good idea to have one,

    • pros & cons,

    • how to tee up the conversation with your partner about getting one,

    • etc.

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Divorce: (one-on one)

Pre-Divorce

The prospect of getting divorced can feel daunting. I am here to help you figure out how to approach the process, discover what options you might have, and know what pitfalls to avoid. I can assist with:

  • how to tell your spouse you'd like a divorce

  • what to expect and what the process will entail

  • what options you have / paths you can take to get divorced

  • how to prepare for your divorce

  • what resources you can leverage to get through the process in a way that aligns with your goals (i.e., as cheaply as possible, as quickly as possible, as amicably as possible, etc.)

As with most things in life, preparation is key, and I can provide the most value to clients who engage me early-on in the process.

During Divorce

The divorce process can feel overwhelming and complex to take-on. I can provide you with:

  • clarity as to the process and steps you should take next

  • guidance, organization, and support throughout your divorce

  • how to best prepare for your mediation / negotiation session(s)

  • access to my referral network of trusted experts and service providers you might need or benefit from (such as an incredible co-parenting counselor or a financial expert who specializes in divorce)

I will keep you organized and on-track in hitting the deadlines inherent to the divorce process, while also ensuring you are taking care of yourself. Let me support you on your journey through one of the most difficult periods of your life. Although divorce is often painful, it can also be an incredible opportunity for positive change and growth.

Post-Divorce

Unfortunately, the divorce process often extends beyond the issuing of the divorce decree. I can support clients with:

  • a post-divorce checklist (to make sure nothing big slips through the cracks)

  • how to rediscover & reestablish your identity independent of your relationship with your ex

  • how to gain a perspective on your divorce that will serve you going forward

  • tools and exercises to help you get unstuck and become the best possible version of yourself

  • how to re-enter the dating world

  • assistance with goal-setting and staying accountable

  • guidance through additional life transitions (such as a move, career change, co-parenting, etc.)

  • help in getting to a place where you're thriving post-divorce

I will help you uncover your core identity -- your best self -- and hold you accountable to it as you begin to see the world through a new lens post-divorce. You are not alone, and you are worthy of love. I will provide you with the encouragement you need to push past your low points and work with you to strengthen your relationship with yourself so you can approach future relationships from a healthy space.